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Should I contact him?
My 30 year high school reunion is this Saturday. There is a guy that I dated my senior year and I would really like to see him (my intentions are totally pure - I swear) I have seen him maybe 4 times over the last 30 years, twice when I was single and there were a couple of kisses but nothing more and then at 2 other reunions. Now I am happily married. I found out from a friend that he is going to one of the reunion events but not to the "big dinner event." (My schedule prevents me from going to the other events) We have a school website where we can privately contact prople from our class. Would it be ok to email him and say "are you coming" or would that be crazy.
Public Comments
- It would be crazy, because you are married now, but you also have feelings for him. If you try to plan to meet him, that would be like cheating. If you run into each other, it is OK.
- Crazy. You're married, whether your intentions are pure or not the only guy you should be concerned with being there should be your husband.
- Nah, I reckon you should get in contact for old times sake. If you are married to someone you love there shouldn't be a problem. If there is a problem maybe you should review your life as it is
- CRAZY!!!
- well, have to becareful now, cuz ur married, but u can just start talking to him and then start talking about the reunion and then u can ask him.
- It would not be crazy. Be careful not to flirt or act like you're trying to start something with him. Just a simple "Hey! I heard you're coming to the reunion, but not the dinner... why not?" Explain that you'd like to see him there, but it looks like you're attending different events. Follow up with a little "What's up with you? I'm married and have xx kids..." type information. If you can't meet up at the reunion, maybe you can at least chat over email. There's nothing wrong with connecting again on a friendship level. If it's your 30-year reunion, y'all are past the stupid teenage/young love stuff, and should know how to talk as adults without things getting out of hand.
