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Help me approach a girl?
I'm totally gaga over this girl I found on a dating website. This is rare because I rarely target any individual girl but I seem to be very drawn to her. I feel like she may shoot down my advances on the first try. Usually, I would just move on, but this time I don't want to; I want to win her over. So... I need help with a strategy. Here are the stats: Me: 28, 6'6", Attorney, average build, kind of lanky, live in New Jersey. Sarcastic, sometimes obnoxious and arrogant (think Ben Affleck) Her: 21, 5'7" into snowboarding, cooking, lives in NYC, senior at Notre Dame studying anthropology and psychology. She's very witty, sarcastics, apparently loves to cook. 1. Assuming we exchange emails, when should I ask for her number? first chat session? same day? wait a few days? 2. How should I act on the phone? I'm completely attracted to her and normally I would play it cool and act uninterested (usually because its true). 3. When should I set up a date? Next day? week?
Public Comments
- Try going to double your dating dot com and ask David D the same question.
- 1. when u exchange emails, ask her if she is on im. She'll likely exchange then you can chat that same day, talk to her a couple days see if u really like her and give her your number see if she calls 2. when she calls, dont sound too eager or desperate be yourself, use a lot of sarcasm make her laugh and of course compliments 3. now the meeting, dont rush things but you gotta make her wanna see you. This could take a while depending on how much she likes you.
- Hey brother! So you did the online dating thing.....hey why not! First you must know if she is intereted in long distance relationships. She's in Indiana now so what can you expect. If this is cool with her then you have a base to start on. The biggest problem with these sites is that guys go in for the kill immediately without getting to know the other person. Don't be in a hurry, get to know everything about her. Show interest in what she does, who she is, what she wants to become. Get to know her interests, heck, what's her favorite ice cream, her favorite time of the year, etc. etc. Don't try and be Coolio and acted like you're uninterested....cuz....you are! Get to know her brother and see where it goes. You have time. You will know how she feels about you once the both of you start communicating. Does she always email you back? Does she say things like, "Hope you have a wonderful day"? Does she give you lengthy emails instead of one liners? Does she ask you lots of questions? Remember.....be yourself. Don't try and portray someone that you're not. Give it time. When the feeling comes to ask her for her phone number you will know.
