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Are we REAL friends or is she just looking for free stuff? Is there any potential for becoming BF and GF?

So I like this girl a lot and I have known her for almost a year and we kind of dated a couple times and I was shot down but anyways, we agreed to remain friends. I invited her to come to my work today and it was totally spur of the moment and she came without hesitating. She's come three weeks in a row and last week she just showed up without really saying anything. So my question is, does this mean that she is starting to like me or she's just coming to get free food? Cuz I've bought two times and gave her 50% off the other time. What exactly is going on? Whenever we text, we usually get into this conversation of how beautiful she is and she sometimes breaks down and starts telling me how she hates the scars on her face and she thinks her feet are ugly and all this non sense. I just tell her that it actually makes her look better, believe it or not. She always says thanks and tells me I'm "too sweet". I'll take any answer. Thanks. She's 17 and I'm 18. I am going to college this fall and she will be a senior in high school. We went to different high school's too.

Public Comments

1. women are always looking for free stuff. however we cannot tell if she likes u or not by what you have said
2. She's using you, mate. Oh my god!!!! So much. I have a former best friend who did this. (she's also 17.) She is using you to get food and the conversations always turn to her because she is compliment hunting. Distance youself. Please. I've seen two of my guy friends get hurt by my former besty and it's not fun to watch. Good luck, mate.
3. if she is showing up at your workplace without saying anything, this means that she is interested in you..it is kinda early to tell if she has feelings or she is just killing time right now..if you wanna know, why dont u ask her to meet up for coffee few times..see if she will show up or not...
4. LOL....SHE LIKES YOU!!!,SHE SEEMS A BIT SHY.SEEM INSECURE,HELP HER OPEN UP MORE.KEEP COMMENTING HER FLAWS,SO SHE WOULD KNOW GOOD GUY LIKE YOURSELF...LIKE HER COMPLETELY AS WHO SHE I.
5. OH OH .... You are one of those guys "Too sweet". She doesn't want anything more than just friendship wth you. Sounds like she does need a confidence booster - which is you. Don't hold your breathe about getting into a relationship with her. The most that could happen could be a one night stand and then she will go all weird with you. If that's the case, she's a person who doesn't know what she wants.
6. I agree, tell her that you can't give out free food because the manager or owner has been cracking down, but tell her she's still welcome to stop by during your breaks or lunch. See what happens after that. does she still stop by and say hello or does she not call like she used to. You'll probably get your answer that way.