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How do i Get to know the soon to be father of my child all over again?After a rocky history?
Okay my ex.bf was my first bf (kiss ect.)we met our senior year of highschool i was 17 going on 18 and he was 16 going on 17(funny b-day) from another school. He came to dance as one of my friends dates(he was her ex.bf).It was love at first site we had a instantly eyes locked he came over instantly started flirting.Within 24 hrs we were dating we went through hell with my friend who was his ex.gf she spread horrible rumors about me.I got pregnant we broke up and got back together only to break up again(he liked another girl)and i miscarried the baby.Tried to stay friend later his new gf did not like me though and he sent me a message saying he never wanted to see me again.Six months later he came looking for me we started a fling(his relationship ifie and i was on rebound) that lasted 2.5 yrs.I met my hubby started dating him we got engaged but took 4 month break before the wedding.I had one last fling with my ex.bf and now have a son on way.He wants to see if we can try dating again? P.S I got married unaware i was carring ex.bf child and am getting a divorce from hubby.Parents never approved of my ex.bf because they felt he was lower class so i never took him seriously till now?I am confused unsure of my feelings? I dated my hubby 1.5yrs and truly thought i was over my ex.bf!
Public Comments
- I think you have a seriously screwed up situation. You need to decide on who you want to be with, don't let the baby be the deciding factor to be with the father. Can you depend on him? It doesn't seem like it to me, he doesn't know what he wants with running towards and away from you. Have you had sex with your husband around the same time you got pregnant? Because there is a chance it could be his if you did. You need to tell your husband the truth no matter who you decide to be with. Do you love your husband? Or do you love your ex? You can only pick one so choose wisely.
- Get counseling before the baby is born. Sounds like you are destined to be with this guy, but seriously you both should see a counselor to work out your issues and I think you both will be extremely happy afterward. There is no fighting destiny, but you have to remember that you have to work to make destiny perfect...................
