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i feel so lame asking, but this guy is so confusing - maybe crazy? help please? okay. i'm a single mom, and i don't have much time to get out. my friend told me about this free dating website, so i signed up for it. i never really took it seriously, but this one guy sent me this funny email and it just kinda caught my interest. we talked for about a week back and forth online and i eventually gave him my phone #. we texted for a day or two, then started talking on the phone every night for at least a good three hours a night. He suggested meeting up after about a week of talking, and I met him at his parents house with his friend and his friends girlfriend. We had a really good time, and I ended up spending the night with him. No sex, just stayed there because I lived kinda far away. We continued talking on the phone every night, he told me he liked me, i told him i liked him. i picked him up from his work on thursday (he lost his license for 2 months) and he came over my place. we drank and ended up having sex. a lot of it. and he was really nice - it was all very much about me. he called in late to work so he could take me out to breakfast in the morning. we hung out again with his friends on friday, and he stayed here again. we slept in all day saturday and just kinda talked in bed.... and then went out to dinner. here's what i'm finding weird. he is a director of the company he is at.... and he told me his last name was something different than what the company's website said it was. i asked him about it and he said i didn't need to know at the time, but it was good detective work... (and i quote) "perfect for what i have you signed up for." i asked him what that meant (he was drunk at the time) and he just kinda was like 'i dunno i was just sayin". he said he had a past life that he can't talk about - but he knows how to pick any kind of lock (i've seen the tools he has and seen him do it) and he's licensed to carry a gun and he goes down to VA beach to train people how to do something with the bullets or something weird like that (i don't remember exactly) and does ETC's in washington... (something terrorist somethings). i mean this is all stuff he SAYS. i haven't corroborated much, but i've seen his permit to carry, his lock picking, his bullet proof vest, his gun (hollow tip bullets....) and he says he's been all over the world - sierra leone, fiji, iran, iraq, afghanistan, russia, mexico, etc etc etc. i asked him what he does and he says he can't tell me, but it was something he would never go back to. OH. and he has some device on him that he said scans for bugs and makes white noise so you can't be recorded? hm. AND he lives in a hotel. he said he doesn't like to be tied down to a lease. (commitment issues anyone?) he's 7 years older than me (i'm 21, he's almost 28). i've always been mature for my age, and dated guys that were a little older. (usually 23 or 24) so i don't know if it's just a age thing that he's not "dating" me yet.... or if he's just playing me. the way he talks to me really gets in my head - it's like he knows me. and he makes me feel awesome. i enjoy spending time with him and talking to him, but i'm kinda starting to like him and i don't want to if he's just using me. i wouldn't even really mind because i'm enjoying myself a lot... but if he's some kind of psycho, i wanna break it off. do you think he's lying about everything or what?? and how can i figure out his intentions without looking like a needy little girl??? we talked about it and said we weren't gonna have sex again quite yet, it was just a drunk mistake. and nothing has changed between us - we still talk every night and he texts me a lot during the day. he pays on every date. i don't know. without being harsh, what are your thoughts on the whole thing?? & he's smart. or at least sounds like it. he tries to tell me all this stuff about economics, finances, even religion. and i'm always really good at hiding stuff from people when i want my privacy, but he can read me SOO well. it's a little un-nerving. again, i feel lame asking this. i just don't want to ask my friends.... cuz i'm doubting him a little and i don't want to look dumb to them. nikki - thank you. that's kinda what i was thinking. i really wanna like him, but something in the back of my head is telling me something isn't quite right. but i've been around some pretty lame people all my life, so i don't know if i'm just being paranoid because i've never met anyone like him that doesn't just live paycheck to paycheck and eat at mcd's and haven't quite grown up yet.

About dating ages, relationships, and legality...? In the US, you are an adult the day you turn eighteen. If you have sex with someone who is 18 and you are 17-- the 18yo is said to be "raping" you. Even if you consent, the person is good to you, and they never forced you or hurt you-- they still go to jail because of something you agreed to. Shouldn't consequences be decided on a case-by-case basis instead of being black and white? I mean, if someone is 16 and they decide to date someone who is 18 of their own free will, shouldn't they be allowed to? Shouldn't it depend on maturity levels and all the other factors instead of being decided solely on age? I've seen some pretty immature 25yos, and some very mature 15 yos. So should age be the only deciding factor between consent and rape, or should there be others? Angel_Again I was using those ages as an example. But I mean, what about a kid that's 16 and another that's 18? Why is that so bad or wrong, isn't that a close age? Shouldn't there be something somewhere that says case-by-case, not black and white? Personally I'm going for age+well-being of both parties involved+reasons+maturity level of both. Something more deciding than just that single day under 18.

please advice on relationship from mature people who can help me out!!!? she started dating someone off and on for 4 years. finally she met me and started dating june 13. idk what we were thinking but we talked about having a baby immediately. so we had sex and tried getting pregnant. a month later july 27 she found out she was pregnant. she told me she was shocked because she had a miscarriage october of 07, and thought she just cudnmt have a baby at all period. so was this a experiment on me? why me if so? i had to go to school and jen said she wud move with me to support me. up until the week before i left it was cool, then she laid it on me that she didnt wanna go, and made up excuses that she didnt wanna live with 3 other guys and she wanted to stay near her family. so i almost didnt graduate and finish my dream but i fought through it and graduated. while i was at skool it was hard to focus because she had my mind screwed up. I would drive home then back then home then back numerous times. when i would drive home she would only see me when she wanted to. i drove 3 and a half hrs, which i didnt wanna do, and she decides she wud take a nap before seeing me. if i drive home make the commitment to see me. i saw a counselor to help me through the trouble and even got my medicine changed and it helped. i started getting my feelings under control. at school she would talk so nasty and her mouth was unbelieveable. their was no making my point clear b/c she would come back with some obnoxious comment or remark that really hurt a sensitive guy like me. it took alot out of me and stressed me out. let me take you back before i left for school. we were at a stop light and i planned on finishing school via online. we were at a red light and she says "im so happy everythings going my way." thats selfish isnt it? we went to the casino for a night which my mother treated us to a nice accomodated room, if that wasnt enough i wake up and see she had talked to her ex bf for a half hour a couple nights ago WHICH she forgot to tell me about. i bought into it seeing how they just broke up. i come home to visit a weekend and i see they were texting. obviously i was upset and told her to leave. instead of trying to make me see differently, she nicely, got up and left and didnt say a word. wouldnt you fight for the one you love.? so i then tell her to quit her job trying to be there for her. i didnt want her workingh in that type of environment. i told her i would take care of her threw her pregnancy which i did. one night we werrent feeeling the baby, she wanted to wait till the next morning to call the doc but i took it upon my self to bring her right then and there. even i had to work at 9am the next morning in manlius, a half hour drive. for her birthday i paid over $2,000 in her bills so she would be stress free and we could start a clean slate and she wouldnt have to worry about not having money, but still to this day im called an asshole and fake. one night before school she told me she wud be over to my house after she went to her friend yo yo's. well was she rly even there? b/c she never came over and didnt even call to tell me that. so as im skipping around here i forgot to mention i asked her how this decision even came about. she said we decided to get pregnant when we were drunk. i asked her if she regretted it then she said she will never regret the baby but she wished she wud of gotten to no me a little bit more. we didnt get to no e/o until she got pregnant. i am always very respectful to her parents and they like me. she doesnt give mine the time of day and im a family guy, thats a problem. she said she doesnt no who my mom is but she isnt gonna kiss her ass, shes 66! have some respect. she was into drugs bad in her day and had problems like got kicked out of the house. i straightened her out a little but she is very selfish. yeah she does clean the apartment and make me dinner but i work full time and pay the rent, utilities, groceries, and cable phone and internet, something i cant do alone.she keeps talking bout how she cant wait to go out and drink once the baby comes out. she doesnt wanna go anywhere in public w me but when we fight she goes anywhere with whoever. if i dont spend 24/7 with her she gets very emotional and blames it on me. i have a lil bro i chilled w my whole life and i spent the weekend w him and she says i never have any time for her anymore she says. we live together hows that possible. i work all day and wanna watch the game, ill b in the living room shell b in the room watching lifetime or some boring program, if she wants to spend time she can come accompany me in the living room. she is so down on her self whenever i tell her shes beautiful she comes back with she has a double chin and shes fat. i hve doner this and complimented her for 8 months but its gets old when she doesnt appreciate it. however she thinks is how shell act. its all her her her. she like gangsters and i have turned into be a respectful young man and that must n

Even if youre Drunk PLEASE answer this EASY GUY CODE QUESTION? If a guy you used to date briefly asks you ahead of time for a SPECIFIC time he can call you up and 'discuss thing' and then asks you how your 'Social Life' is is he trying to see if your single still and interested in him ? This is a guy who I told I can only date if were exclusive that I dont do FWBs. So he know swe cant have sex or date again unless he steps up and acts mature. (hes 32) He calle dme up after asking exactly when I would be free to talk.....He is awkward on the phone and kept asking me how is work, my apartment, just mundane stuff.....And then he asked how is my social life right now. I told him Im still very busy too busy to go out for invites. My friends say Social life means how man and how much am I dating. Yes or no ???????????

Mature women only please. Why does my ex think I should go back out with her if...? Why does my ex think i'd want to go back out with her after she left our relationship and slept with another guy? I mean, really! She now wants our sex life back to where it was, but I don't know if I can ever make love to her again, knowing this other guy has been there. what is wrong with her? doesn't she know i have feelings and it's not that easy for me? is making love really that meaningless these days, where someone can just go back and forth like its no big deal? yes, i understand we broke up, and we were both free to sleep with whomever we wanted, but does that mean i have to force myself to get beyond her making love to rebound guy? it was her impulsive behavior that caused her to jump right into a rebound relationship that eventually failed, not mine! did what we shared mean anything to her? if it was that easy for her to leave me to date rebound guy, why am i the one in pain now that she wants back together? i always wanted her back, but didn't think it would feel like this.

Euphemisms for Masterbation. Male, some these are funny for Mature ONLY? Willys cynical thought for the fugging day; Life is freaking sexually transmitted! I posted the Female already now here's male! A euphemism is the substitution of an agreeable or inoffensive expression for one that may offend or suggest something unpleasant; also : the expression so substituted. A Abusing the usual suspect Angry fist action Answer the bone-a-phone Assault on a friendly weapon B Backstroke roulette Baiting your hook Ball off Batting practice Bash the bishop Bash the candle Beat off Beat your hog Beating the bait Beating the bishop Beating the dummy Beating the snake Beating the stick Beating your meat Being your own best friend Belt your hog Blanket drill, The Bleed the lizard Bleed the weed Blessing the alter boy Blow Your load Bludgeon the beefsteak Bop the baloney Bop the boa Bop the hog Boppin' your bologna Box the Jesuit Boxing the clown Buckin' it Buffing the banana Buffing the wood Burping the worm Bust a nut Butter your corn C Cajun clown f@cking Calling down for more mayo Calling genie Cast off Chafing the weasel Changing your oil Charm the cobra Chicken milking Choking Charlie 'till he throws up Choke the sheriff and wait for the posse to come Choke Kojak Choke the bishop Choke the chicken Cleaning out the rope Cleaning the pipes Cleaning the rifle Clubbing Eddy Clubbing the dolphin Coax the cajones Coming to grips with yourself Couch hockey for one Cough your filthy yogurt Cracking one off Cracking the fat Crank the Shank Cranking Creaming the banana Crown the king Cuff the carrot Cuff the governor Cuffing the puppy D Date Rosey Palm and her five daughters Dating Miss Michigan Detoxifying the puppy Devil's handshake Diddle yourself Dishonorable discharge Doing the knuckle shuffle on your piss pump Dong flogging Doodle your noodle Drain the dragon Drain the monster Drain the vein Drip the pickle Drop off a load Drubbing the dolphin E Eberting Siskel F Fapping Fertilizing the Lawn Fetch the bagel dog Fiddle the ferret Fight your turkey Firm your worm Fist f@ck Fist kabobing Fist your mister Five against one Five finger knuckle shuffle Five knuckle olympics Flog yourself Flogging the bishop Flogging the dolphin Flogging your dong Flogging your log Flong your dong Flute solo Flying a kite Fondle the fig Freeing the willies Friction therapy Frig yourself Frigging the love muscle F@ck Mary Fist G Gallop the antelope Get a hold of yourself Get your nuts off Getting in touch with your manhood Getting in touch with yourself Getting to know yourself Getting your caps peeled Gherkin jerkin' Giving it a tug Giving oneself a "low-five" Giving the John Hancock Grease the pipe Greasing your bone Grip your dip Grooming your junior H Hack the hog Ham shank Hand dancing Hand jive Hand job Handle yourself Hands on training Hand to gland combat Hand to hand combat with the purple helmeted warrior Hand work Having a pull Having a roy Have it off Have one off the wrist Heating up the hot dog Hitchhike under the big top Hitching to Heaven Hit the ham Holding all the cards Holding your sausage hostage Hone your bone Hump your fist Hump your hose Humpin' air I Interrogating the witness Ironing some wrinkles J Jack hammer Jack off Jackin' Jackin' the beanstalk Jag off Jazz yourself Jerk off Jerk the gherkin Jerk the Johnson Jibbin' Jiggle the jewelry Jimmying your Joey Juggling the javelin K Keep the census down Kick one out Killing kittens Killing the beast Knock the top off Knuckle shuffle L Launching the hand shuttle Leakin' the main drain Living by the fat of the hand Lizard milking Loping your mule Lynching the one-eyed monster M Makin' gravy for the biscuit Making the bald guy puke Making nut butter Making yogurt Mangle the midget Manipulate the mango Manual exercise Manual override Manual pollution Masonic secret self handshake Massage the muscle Massage the purple-headed warrior Menage a moi Milking the bull Milking the lizard Milking the monkey Milkywaying Molding hot plastic Muscling up N Nerk your throbber O Oil the glove Oiling the pogo stick Onanism One handed clapping One handed humpty hump love pump, The One handed rodeo, The One-legged race, The One man show One man tug-o-war One man wrestling One man's game P Pack your palm Paddle the pickle Paint the pickle Paint the walls Pat the Robertson Peel the banana Peel the carrot Peter beater Petting the dog Playing with D*ck Playing with Susie Palm and her five friends Playing with the noodle Play pocket pool Play the organ Play the pisser Play the p*ss pipe Play the skin flute Play the stand-up organ Playing with the snake Playing your instrument Play with yourself Plunk your twanger Pocket pinball Pocket pool Pokin' the palm Polish the bishop Polish the chrome dome Polish the helmet Polish the rocket Polish the sword Polish your bayonet Polish your helmet Polish your piece Polishing the banister Polishing the cue stick Popping the porpoise Pound off Pound your flounder Pound your p*ss pump Pound your pomegranate Pounding your pud Preemptive infanticide Private arm exercise Prod the peepee Promoting carpal-tunnel syndrome Pudwhacking Pud wrestling Pull the root Pull off Pull your pud Pull your pudding Pull yourself off Pulling the goalie Pulling the p*ss pump Pulling the pole Pulling the pope Pulling the pud Pulling the taffy Pulling the wire Pulling your pickle Pump your pickle Pumping for pleasure Pumping for power Pumping the python Pumping your gas at self-service island Punchin' the clown Punchin' the munchkin Punishing Percy Punishing the bishop Punishing the priest Punishing the Evil Merchant Q [none] R Ram the ham Releasing the hostages Ricky boxing Ride the great white knuckler Ringing the bell Rolling the fleshy blunt Roman helmet rhumba Ropin' the long horn Rope the pony Roughing up the suspect Rounding up the tadpoles Rub off Rub one out Rub the unicorn's horn Rubbing Peter to pay Paula Run off a batch S Saluting the general Sanding the main mast Shaking hands with the unemployed Shlackin' the glacknoid Scraping the carrot Scratching the itch Seasoning your meat Self-love Sending out the troops Setting sail with Captain Thumb on the USS Hand Sex with your best friend Shag off Shaking hands with Abe Lincoln Shaking hands with shorty Shaking hands with the governor Shaking hands with the unemployed Shake the snake Shaking the tree Shifting gears Shine your pole Shining the helmet Shining the torpedo Shooting enemies Shooting practice Shooting putty at the moon Shooting Sherman Shooting without scoring Shower spank Shucking Bubba Shucking the corn Simple infanticide Slam the hammer Slammin' the salami Slappin' pappy Slapping the clown Slapping Uncle Willy Slap boxing the one-eyed champ Slap my happy sacs Slap the salami Slapping the cyclops Slapping your chub Slinging jelly Sloppy Joe's last stand Sloppy sign language Smacking the snake Smite the dragon Snap the monkey Snap the whip Snapping your carrot Solitary sin, The Spank the frank Spank your monkey Spear chucking Spit-shine the purple helmet Splurtin' the spladder bladder Spreading the mayo Spunk the monk Squeeze the cream from the flesh twinkie Squeeze the lemon Squeezing the tube of toothpaste Squeezing the burrito Stall clapping Stir the soup Strangling the snake Strangling the Wonka Stroke off Stroke the stallion Stroke your poke Stroking it Stroking your goat Stroke your poker T Tadpole rodeo, The Taking a core sample Taking a shake break Taking advantage of yourself Taking Herman to the circus Taking Little Johnny dancing down at Knuckle Junction Tame the wild hog Taming of the shrew, The Tap the turkey Tease one out Tease the python Tease the weasel Tenderize the meat Tethering the blimp The erky jerk The sticky page rhumba Threading a needle Throttle the bottle Throw off a catch Throwin' down Thump the pump Tickle the Elmo Tickle the pickle Tickle your goodfoot Toss off Toss the boss Toss the midget Toss the turkey Touch off a batch of orphans Tugging the tapioca tube Tugging the tubesteak Tug of war with cyclops Tuning the antenna Turning on the ivory faucet Tussle with your muscle Twang your wire Tweek U Uncorking the champagne Unwrapping the pepperoni V Varnishing the cane Vinegar stroke W Wailing Waking up your bro Walking the dog Walking Willie the one-eyed wonder worm Wang whacking W#nk(ing) W#nk the Willy Wonka Wanking the crank Waxing the dolphin Wax your Jackson Wax your weasel Wax your Willy Whack the bag Whack off Whack your tack Whacking the weed Whapping your wang Whip the cummy Whip your cripper Whipping the one-eyed wonder weasel Whipping the pony Whipping the window washer Whipping up a batch White water wristing Whizzin' J*zz Wiggling your worm Willy tickle Winding the Jack In The Box Wing it Wonk your conker Work one out Working a cramp out of your muscle Working your willy Wrestling Jimmy Wrestling the bald-headed champ Wrestling the bald-headed sumo Wrestling the eel Wring out your rope Wring your thing Wringing 'round the rosie Wrist aerobics X [none] Y Yahtzee Yank my doodle dandy Yank off Yank the yodel Yank your crank Yank your yam Z Zipper surfing http://www.total-knowledge.com/~willyblues/ From; http://www.starma.com/penis/willy/willy.html This been censored

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She means the world to me.. i just want reassurance? ok. Im 15 and my gf is 12. she means the world to me and she is my BEST friend and i mean it. ive known her for almost three years and we have been dating for about 3 months. We are not having sex or anything but pepole say im gross and stuff. She is very mature for her age and people say she looks 16. so anybody wanna say somethin feel free

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AGE OF CONSENT LAWS-The way they SHOULD be! I will illustrate this? Isabel started puberty at 12 and by age 14 she felt all these hormones raging inside her and she started to feel attraction towards males. She developed her secondary sex characteristics which naturally attract men. Paulo who is 22 years of age drives by Isabel as she's walking down the sidewalk and does a double-take at how cute she is. He parks his car and approaches her and asks her age. Isabel tells Paulo she's 14 and Paulo decides she's too young for him and drives away. We can all agree Paulo did the right thing, but why did Paulo decide she was too young for him? I'll discuss that later. Isabel senses Paulo is more mature than she is and therefore she is more attracted to him then she is her peers. This is because Isabel is going through new changes, she is developing into a sexual being, and along with that is the need to feel desirable, if her advances are denied, or lack of advances towards her are not frequent, this need will not be met and she will feel "unsexy", "undesirable" which will inevitably lead to low-self esteem, which could lead to depression and disregard for life, therefore leading to risky behavior. She acknowledges Paulo is older and is therefore primarily attracted to older women, women that have a firm hold on their sexuality and confident of it, feelings Isabel is pursuing. Basically, to bag an older man proves to Isabel that she's just as sexy as the women Paulo is normally attracted to, therefore confirming that she is indeed very desirable. This is the workings of an immature mind. This is the reason at times young women are naturally drawn to older men and will they will often lie about their age to secure their attention. This is where parents are desperately needed to fulfill their roles. Paulo and Isabel are in different stages in their lives. Paulo has reached sexual maturity meaning he can freely engage in intercourse with women and not feel bound by them, and move on to another women if he pleases, or if he chooses remain with them in a relationship. Regardless of what actions he takes, the women he's with are mature enough to handle whatever situation that arises. Isabel is still in the early stages of her sexuality and is not yet mature enough to handle the behavior that is inherent to Paulo. For example, say Paulo has sex with Isabel, she will become over attached to Paulo because she will use him as her affirmation of her sexual identity, she will not be Paulo's primary choice, since at her age she will naturally have boundaries set by her parents which will inhibit Paulo's freedom, Paulo will want to move on and Isabel is left with the feeling of being undesirable, used for sex (which is the case, coz why else would Paulo of done it? if he knew she couldn't be free with him) and therefore left feeling dirty and unwanted, at the fragile stage in her development, this can more easily lead to depression ect. This is the way it SHOULD be! Paulo should started dating women at around the age of 17 on to his age for they are near to or at the age of full maturity and therefore freedom from parental bondage. Therefore they will be happy in their freedom and freely engage in intercourse with no hurt feelings since they are mature enough to handle it. Isabel should be allowed to explore her sexual feelings but only with people in her age group and with boundaries. This allows her experience in developing feelings for others at smaller doses and dealing with rejection at smaller doses. (any act that accompanies an orgasm is bound to lead to a "deeper" feeling of being with someone, since the feeling becomes an addiction, therefore the person you shared it with becomes one, this is not the case with other acts, such as "kissing" "cuddling", although they do lead to deeper feelings since they enhance a relationship, the feelings of losing them are less intense and more easily managed by a person at Isabel's age.) It is the job of Isabel's parents to explain this entire process to her. Why she wants older men, why it's not right to lie about her age to attain one, why she should just date people her age ect. IT IS THE PARENTS'S JOB! I can not stress this more enough. Paulo is not as confident as Isabel suspected. In reality, he has a hard time around women in person at first, he's fine once he gets to know them in an inpersonal setting first, then engages a meeting. This is just his usual routine. Isable also frequents the internet (without parental supervision as usual these days) and spots Paulo's profile. Her emotions hit the roof, she must have this older more mature man (in her eyes) because it will make her feel like an older more mature woman. So typically, she lies about her age, and Paulo being a trusting man doesn't question it. Isabel even goes as far as to provide Paulo with a fake picture of a much older woman. For nearly a year, they talked online. Paulo insists on meeting but Isabel is clever in making up stories as to why they can't. Mainly that her brothers are involved in gangs and that they will harm Paulo for dating her since he's a "stranger of the net" This story seems reasonable so Paulo decides to wait it out until, as Isabel puts it, she is able to find an apartment and decent paying job to leave her parent's house and her brothers. As Paulo becomes tired of waiting and becomes more insistant. Isabel decides she can't keep up the ruse any longer and having developed real natural feelings of caring for Paulo,and not handling the guilt any longer decides to tell him the truth. She tells him one summer day, that she has a confession to make. Paulo's heart races, what could it be? She admits she's really 15. Paulo's heart drops and beside himself with anger. His first impulse is the right one, he tells Isabel that he can no longer talk to her. Having dealt with a girl before that threatened suicide at a break-up, Paulo makes sure she can handle that he can't talk to her anymore and makes her promise she won't do anything stupid. She claims she will end her life if he stops talking to her, and Paulo is upset, but in his irrational mind takes this as a good reason to stay with her since he simply can't turn off the feelings he has for her. They developed in a year's time, but this is simply a state of confusion and once Paulo finally comes to his senses, he decides it has to end. There is a problem though, and this is where the law of the land inhibits Paulo from doing what was truly right, which was end the charade, and notify her parents of her actions and leave it at that. The law states that Paulo can be convicted of this act and sent to jail REGARDLESS of whether he knew her true age or not. In the context of this situation this law seems utterly ridiculous, but Paulo recognizes it and fears his own safety (since people with that charge latched onto them are treated less then kindly in prison,even to the point of being killed) and the loss of his freedom This now becomes a matter of life and death for Paulo, a matter of self-preservation and personal survival. He realizes that if he were to dump Isabel, there is a very good chance she will not take this very well and in a fit of personal revenge turn him into the authorities, who could give a damn about his side of the story. He simply can not take the risk and convinces himself that he has to keep Isabel under surveillance and insure she won't turn him in, and the best way to do that he figures is to remain her online boyfriend" therefore she would still care for him too much to risk putting him in harm. He feels repulsed that this is what he feels he has to do for his own good (I doubt many out there would do any different in the face of jail time and a lifetime brand of being a sex offender just for being unlucky enough to be duped like this) In his heart of hearts he feels it is wrong, but since he has to deal with it until she turns 18 (the year Paulo figures he can just be with her, and his fears of persecution will be gone) he convinces himself theres nothing wrong with being attracted to someone 15 (which in a biological sense, he's right) and that she's mature enough to be with him in a nonsexual relationship (which since thats what she's supposed to do with boys her age, be in nonsexual relationships) he is right in a sense that she is mature enough to handle that. Paulo is a victim of circumstance. The circumstances being Isabel's parents failed in their duty as parents to properly inform their daughter she should not seek out older men and lie about her age to them, and the circumstance that the law simply can't recognize that situations like this do occur and Paulo has the right to end the relationship and defer Isabel to her parents, and the parents be reprimanded for unproper surveillance of their child and neglect of their duties to properly educate her. Paulo is forced to pervert his very nature for the sake of saving his own hide. Isabel finally grows bored of Paulo as she gets older and simply dumps him. Paulo is RELIEVED! A huge weight is off his shoulders. Although he feels a tinge of fear she may still turn him in, he feels she has less reason to do so since it was her decision to leave. He now lives with perpetual guilt for what he did. Logically, he was stuck between a rock and a hard place, the rock being being set up to be in that situation by Isabel and essentially her parents to and the hard place being his life, freedom and reputation stripped from him, he found himself between that and came to the decision he thought was right for his own personal benefit. This is the type of thing that happens when society is blind to science, psychiatry, and common sense and makes there laws in a way that it OPPOSES those very things that enrich our lives and gives us proper understanding on how things should be. I explained how science, psychiatry, and common sense has dictated (at least in my view) things should of went down, but the laws, and improper education of the parents and the child leads to a haphazard mishandling of things that only leads to the ruination of lives.

How can I improve this character? This is the image I had in mind when I was writing about Marie: http://i141.photobucket.com/albums/r61/radiosonde/006.jpg Name: Marie Elizabeth Summers Date of birth: 23rd April 1986 Place of birth: Paris in a flat near the seine Religion: None but was brought up under the influence of the light of god Age: 22 Hair colour: Pale blonde Eye colour: icy blue Nationality: French Height: 5ft 2 Weight: 105 pounds Parents: Elise Marie Summers and Pierre Charles Summers Family History: On Wednesday 23rd April 1986, Marie Elizabeth was born at 16:04 at their family home in Paris. Elise died during child birth. Pierre went into a downward spiral and joined a religious cult – the light of god - and took Marie with him. Being in the cult prevented Marie from being called Marie as it was part of her mother's name, her father changed her first name to Maria just so he left like he still had part of his wife still in his daughter. Marie grew up in the cult becoming more rebellious day by day. She didn't feel like she belonged in the cult so she began to question the ethics and rules of the cult. At the age of 19 female members of the cult are to have sex with the leader of the cult to mature into a woman as it's believed the leader is a descendant of god. The day before her 19th birthday Marie disappeared from the cult and has been ever since. Before running away Marie never had a proper relationship with her father due to being brought up in the cult. She never had the chance to develop a proper relation to him as she was constantly being punished for her 'free thinking' and for her rebellious behaviour. She never has forgiven him for standing there in silence as she was viciously beaten until she was unconscious. Marie now lives in England under her birth name but wears a wig as she couldn't bring herself to dye her hair and she wears contacts instead of glasses. She learnt English before she arrived to England aged 20. Marie lives in constant fear that she'll be found and taken back to the cult. If she's found she knows that she could either be beaten then forced to go through the rite of passage to become a woman or she'll be killed. She fears that if she's found that she'll not be able to escape again like she did in Paris four months after she disappeared at 18. Marie is a talented dancer and musician, something she didn't learn until she ran away. To earn money she danced in the street and played instruments she bought or stole when others weren't looking. She wasn't able to get a job as she didn't have any formal education despite not having any formal education and only the rules and ethics shoved down her throat she is an intelligent girl. She learnt English by watching English programmes with French subtitles and listening to English music. In England, Marie works as a part time dance teacher as well as giving private music lessons. She also does some cleaning work when things get tough for her. I aplogize for any mistakes, I've not double checked it yet plus I wrote it without my glasses on

Help! Im hurting so much.Matured answers only.Loong story.? Have you gone through such a heartache, ran out of answers and left broken & so weak?.Seriously im often now experiencing a ball of fire in my heart.I worry at times im gonna die but then, im not even afraid of death anymore i ve been through sooo much-i think, so what's death. IM Just >30 i was married once in a rush, my plans failed, and my marriage.I left my husband in fear of what he was doing (drugs) will kill us both.I helped him out of it with fight.(i insured him).We had the best times i ever had in my life.I was nt close w/his mother bcause in the beginning she never liked me, he fought for me and over time she begin to like me and overly excited every time she saw me she'd run to me saying "my baby".I was confused but she was trying very hard.I was slow. He asked me we should split bcause he was never sane when we're got married, i refused but he insisted and started telling me all he wanted from me was sex.I was hurt badly by this.I finally filed for divorce.From then i lost my mind. To make it worse his mother died, he called me to ask of other things he never mentioned he mother was dying, neither told me she'd died.I spoke w/her she never mentioned she was very ill, but she insited i email her.At this time i was in another state in USA. Im hurting often, too many freak dates,all i think of better choice is my ex.What can i do?I believe there was not enough communication btn us(me and my ex)I admit having bad influences around.But i miss him deeply...he posted a statement on my space sayin.."is it better to love and lost and never to have loved at all but now i never knew how bad it could hurt to loose something you really never had" I sent him a card of how i felt he responded that he wishes me well i should move on he is not the same man i knew and that since his mother died(the only parent) he went cold, he's dead.He cares for me and wishes me well.I should be free to move on. I have seen counselors, i read alot of self help books,been in churches but wow! things are harder.Im very responsible.Online dating is crazy.My family overly demanding...so im fed up w/them.Wrong guys falling inlove /me, the one i liked was nt honest.I just cannt see anyone like my ex. ANY opinions? similar stories? Since we split it's been 5 years.Im sooo moody now at my job they all know me for moodiness.I can be super nice next second quite the oppossite and so sensitive.Although i have moments of faith and peace.Im curious when will this moods swing out from me for good? Should i attaempt reach my ex at all? Im good ive searched myself and im happy but i think my hurt comes from; My marriage failure,new freaky relationship failures(i had no i broke them all off),overly demanding family, losing on my ex's mom...whom i constantly regret not getting to know her better as she was eager to. I just dont see men the same.Every one i see is worser than the other.I specifically know what i want, is like i care zeroX.I wont settle.

I know I made a mistake of arguing with him and dumping him. I regret that, I want him back so much. Will he? take me back and call me? I've been fighting with him for the last month about his phone and how I feel that I am not a priority in his life. Like every week I fight with him because he fails to respond to my text. We got to a big fight last week friday because he didn't reply to my calls and texts Thursday night. Apparently he was sleeping and had a final the next day(he was telling the truth). I apologized and he accepted, however on Sunday we planned to have a date and he flaked on me. It was suppose to be our makeup day but he texted me 30 minutes b4 he had to pick me up, "Hey just got home and I'm tired, don't think I am going to make it..." I got so mad that I called him but he didnt answer(his phone is broke and doesnt ring). After 3 calls I got so angry that my emotions took over and I dumped him via text. I said horrible things. I think I said, "You are horrible and a Jerk. I can't believe I went back out with you...I am done with all your lies and bullshit, Never again. I am so angry with you right now!" I texted him again of why he's being so cold. Then I wrote him a long message on myspace which I apologized with the way I reacted and told him how hurt I was and that I know I am wrong that I argue with him a lot. He didn't respond to that message since its so long too. I deleted him but added him again(he accepted) and wrote a small message that says "Think of fun and positive things about us. Sorry for the delete, I was just really angry" After I called him on Monday and left a voicemail, he texted "Hey I'm working, I'll call you when I have the time..." He hasn't called. I asked if I could talk to him by last night and he didn't. I texted him, "Hey, I know I've been bad to you lately. Let me make it up to you. I'm free tonight and I promise I'll make you smile ;)" He didn't respond. I give up so I sent him a last text this morning, "Hey Good Morning, I got you something as a peach offering to make you smile & forgive me for arguing with you. But I guess u'r still mad. Well, bye." I think that was my best shot and I give up. I don't know what else to do to have him talk to me. They said he might be angry and needs space to think...Any opinions? Please be mature. Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated. I know I acted immature and I regret it. I handled things very wrong. Btw, we haven't had sex since we got back together(a little over 1 month) but he wants to and he thinks I tease him(Which is another reason he might be mad at me). We foreplay and he gets off.

What do I do about this? What do I do about this? I started seeing my girlfriend a little over a year ago. She told me from the beginning that she is not ready for a real relationship. I pursued and we starting dating. We were casual at first, but of course became more and more serious. We both get along really well, we are a great pair and are completely comfortable with one another. She has had a rough past. Her past BF of 5 years used to beat her and use her and hurt her in anyway he could. She fathered his child because he threatened to kill her if she aborted it. She broke free of him and now has her child. She loves her child very much and is a really great mother. She is still young (early 20s) and lives with the child on her own. Due to circumstances I ended up without a place to live and she took me in. I lived with her for 8 months or so. During which we broke up, but got back together, this occurred a couple of times. It was always the same reason, she was not ready for a serious relationship. She wants to be free and not be tied down. I was very reluctant to live with her, because I was never willing to change for girls, I have always had the view of love em and leave em quickly. I have not had too many partners either because I don't chase girls, and I don't fight very hard for their attention. I never wanted kids or to be married. I fought very hard for her, I chased her and made every effort available to make her mine. Her having a kid was annoying at first, but over time I grew to love her kid and her. She made me love the idea of marrying her and being a step dad and making a family of my own with her. When I say these were HUGE steps for me I sincerely mean it. I am mid-late 20s she is early-mid 20s. Neither of us are ready at all right now for marriage or anything like that, but I would love being with her until we are. Because I lived with her she was there all the time, and she is really not like other girls. I know all girls claim they are not, but she truly is not like other girls. She likes her space, she doesn't like to be bothered. Living with her I wanted to be around her all the time (I was falling in love). She fell in love with me as well. Due to her past and things she has been through when ever a relationship gets too real, she runs. She can't take the idea of being tied down and told what to do. She was forced to mature quickly and never got to experience the things young people are supposed to. So now when she is faced with a real life situation such as a serious relationship where marriage and family is in the future she runs and breaks free. We broke up and got back together several times and the final one was on my birthday. She broke up with me and made arrangements for me to leave her house. I know this sounds horrible, but I assure you she is really a sweet girl and didn't just kick me out. She spoke to one of my best friends and made arrangements. She needed her space she told me. She wasn't ready for this relationship, it was 1 week after our 1st year anniversary. I took it bad. She started hanging out with my friend who took me in. They started getting closer and I suspected they were starting to like each other. I got furious and paranoid and accused her, she denied it. I accused him, he denied it. We were still having sex while I was there, but soon after I got my own place. They were still hanging out and I still brought up that I think they have feelings for each other. They both told me I was not in my right mind, and that there were no feelings and they would not let it get there. My friend comes over my house recently and tells me that she admitted to having feelings for him, and that he has feelings for her. I was enraged. Everything I had suspected was true. They have not acted upon their feelings, which I believe (probably stupidly) but now me and my friend, well ex-friend are arguing and I told him if he does this it will ruin our 10 yr + friendship. I told her if she does this I will never speak to her again. She says that she can't lose me. That I am the greatest thing that has ever happened to her. She says that she really does want to marry me one day, and that her life would be so great with me. She tells me that I am a better man than him and that I am so wonderful and the perfect guy. She tells me that she still loves me and has feelings for me, and that she hates herself for doing this. She says she has always hated girls like this and thought that it was always just a girl being a btch for doing something like this, and she believe she let it get this far. She says that when something gets too real or serious she runs and ruins it. She is self destructive, but wants to change. She said that I am the first guy that she has ever wanted to change for. Part of the reason is that she has never had an orgasm from a man. I knew this from the beginning but of course (being male) I thought I could do it. But she is really embarrassed by this and often when trying to help her ac achieve one, she would get discouraged and say that she is "broken" and would not want to be touched because she felt useless and broken and thinks that its her fault. So part of it is that she thinks that maybe if she runs to a new guy that he will bring her to O. I have been doing research and I have told her to let me help her get their, and she has agreed. I told her she has to communicate with me what feels good, and that just talking to me is a big part. I know this seems really messed up and that I should walk away from this, but my heart is with her. I understand her better than anyone, and all the things she hates about herself and is afraid to say to me because she fears what I will think, I have told her I know them, and I still love her. I am endlessly sweet to her, and always loving. I would do anything for this girl. She has my heart. I'm sure the common advice will be that she is no good, and I should move on. But I can't. I want nothing more than to bring her into my loving family and make everything right. She knows this and tells me there are somethings that I can not fix that she has to. I just want to be there for her, and I would spend the rest of my life trying to make her happy. And no its not a 1 way street she is also unbelievably giving and loving. She is in so much pain for what she has done, and was ready to walk away from both of us because she knows it is wrong. She is really trying to change her ways and I want to be there. She is really happy that I haven't walked away from her like her past friends/boyfriends. She knows that I am crazy about her and that I am in love with her. My friend how ever, I am not sure I can ever trust him again, and in my mind right now, I am happy never talking to him again. He betrayed me in the worst way and I can not forgive him. He knows how I feel about her and he used to talk bad about her, now he claims to like her. I think he is just being himself, which is spoiled and selfish. He always puts himself before his friends, especially when it comes to a girl. Now he is trying to steal my girl. I call her my girl even though we are broken up right now. But she still loves me and she ran because she is scared that I will end up like her ex, and again when her emotions become too real she runs. So now me and my ex-friend talk to her and she talks to us but me and him don't talk, unless arguing. She doesn't know what to do, because of course we both want to be with her. She has already agreed to let me try and help her achieve an orgasm before she even decides whether or not to date him. That right there tells me that she wants to be with me, she wants me to be the one. That tells me that she doesn't even really like him, that she just ran when things got real and now there's some new exciting guy and she is falling into her old patterns, but that she is trying to fight it. I know again everyone is going to tell me to leave her and it's not worth it, but believe me it is. I didn't know girls like her exist and she has my heart. I want nothing more than to be with her. She has told me that if she were to be with him it would be short lived because everyone that knows her has told her that she is being stupid and that it would end quickly and she would feel really stupid and horrible by doing that and that she would lose the greatest guy that she has ever had. She of course was defiant and rebelled saying that she could have a real relationship if she wanted. But she knows that it is true. That she would realize her mistake quickly and come running back to me. I do apologize for this being so long winded and all over the place with thoughts, and if anyone is still reading this far into this post, I applaud you. I would love any advice anyone is willing to give. Especially if any girls out there have similar experiences. Thank you all again, I hope this wrks

Hate crime and descrimination? my girlfriend and i ahve been dating almost a year now and yet again some caled CPS for us apparently having sex, which we are not. i am 18 and she is 15 but se acts so mature it doesnt look odd at all, if you knew us. what i want to know is, if we are such a big deal, why arent they targeting the other STRAIGHT couples that are breaking the age law too? we know os many other couples that have huge age differences but NO ONE is acting on it. is it because were gay? if so, is it possible for me to file a hate crime charge against them if they pursue this? its unfair for ONLY US to be targeted when everyone else gets off scott free. what do you think? what should we do? her parents are fine with me they say im the best thing thats happened to her so tis not her parents. the problem is that this has happened before for NO reason. the filis made on us are COMPLETELY uincelled for and fake in any sort adn im sick of it happening. and for the record, if you knew us, you owuld see that were different. i may be older but shes taller, smarter, and much more maturei n some ways than i ever have been or anyoine of that age is. we have been through this before as well, and ive talked to the police myself. the ysay as long as there is nothing going on, it IS legal to date, jsut not ahve sex. we are completely within the bounds of the law. thanks everyone whos saying what they think. i jsut need some help, im getting punished for loving someone, im not wrong. me and my gf are like best friends, we have a special bond that not everyone gets to have with another person and im thankful for that. her age is irrelevant because if you knew her, shes different. any advice is welcome abotu how you think we could go about fixing our problem no i dont knwo what CPS is ive only been dealign with then for 6 months CHILD PROTECTIVE SERVICES! im not ignorant and if you read the question were NOT having sex...

What do you think about this guy...? This is for a friend. He`s 30, she`s 28. My friend has been dating this guy for about 3 months. Everything started pretty good, you know the usual, getting to know each other. But since the start of their relationship they continued to do their own thing, meaning he`s an athlete and loves sports and she works a lot, so during the week it`s always been about themselves and weekends they spend together. At first, everything seemed ok with my friend, but now she`s starting to want more off this guy, yet he seems to always put his sports first, and every free time he gets, he`s too tired to see her. She`s confused because on weekends their relationship seems perfect and during the week is always about him and his sports and his responsabilities. Another thing: It took about a month and a half for them to get intimate, because she wanted to wait. They responsibly talked about being careful and how she was going to get on the pill. After their fIrst time, which should be the most romantic and passionate, he became really really paranoid that she could get pregnant. He wanted her to take the after day pill just in case all while she`s like, calm down! All this just freaked her out and kind of bummed her out. After his paranoid moment she told him he wasn`t ready to have a relationship with her that included sex, so until he matured about this, she felt it was best if they just continued their relationship without the sex part. She really thought he would come around and say no way, i love you and I want to be intimate with you, share this with you! but instead he told her that that was the best thing they could do! My friend has always been intimate in all her relationships with other guys and has never been irresponsible as to get pregnant or risk it and she feels it`s so weird for this guy to be like, "ok, no sex!" I already gave her my opinion, but I want to show her your answers so she can make a decision on what to do. Thanks! *please no rudeness

Top 10 things NOT to say to parents when picking up a date are? 10. "Sorry I'm a little late. I had to stop by the drugstore." 9. "Show me how you used to spank her." 8. "Please come inside? Wow, you sound just like your daughter." 7. "Do you think she would put out if I told her that I loved her?" 6. "I just got my license today." 5. "I believe being sexually active since I was 12 has helped me mature." 4. "Five bucks says she's a D-cup." 3. "Hey do you have an empty pop can and some matches?" 2. "Hi. I'm Robert, but my friends call me 'Back Door Bob.'" 1. "So, does your wife just lay there during sex too? If i left any out please feel free to add

How can I improve this character? This is the image I had in mind when I was writing about Marie: http://i141.photobucket.com/albums/r61/radiosonde/006.jpg Name: Marie Elizabeth Summers Date of birth: 23rd April 1986 Place of birth: Paris in a flat near the seine Religion: None but was brought up under the influence of the light of god Age: 22 Hair colour: Pale blonde Eye colour: icy blue Nationality: French Height: 5ft 2 Weight: 105 pounds Parents: Elise Marie Summers and Pierre Charles Summers Family History: On Wednesday 23rd April 1986, Marie Elizabeth was born at 16:04 at their family home in Paris. Elise died during child birth. Pierre went into a downward spiral and joined a religious cult – the light of god - and took Marie with him. Being in the cult prevented Marie from being called Marie as it was part of her mother's name, her father changed her first name to Maria just so he left like he still had part of his wife still in his daughter. Marie grew up in the cult becoming more rebellious day by day. She didn't feel like she belonged in the cult so she began to question the ethics and rules of the cult. At the age of 19 female members of the cult are to have sex with the leader of the cult to mature into a woman as it's believed the leader is a descendant of god. The day before her 19th birthday Marie disappeared from the cult and has been ever since. Before running away Marie never had a proper relationship with her father due to being brought up in the cult. She never had the chance to develop a proper relation to him as she was constantly being punished for her 'free thinking' and for her rebellious behaviour. She never has forgiven him for standing there in silence as she was viciously beaten until she was unconscious. Marie now lives in England under her birth name but wears a wig as she couldn't bring herself to dye her hair and she wears contacts instead of glasses. She learnt English before she arrived to England aged 20. Marie lives in constant fear that she'll be found and taken back to the cult. If she's found she knows that she could either be beaten then forced to go through the rite of passage to become a woman or she'll be killed. She fears that if she's found that she'll not be able to escape again like she did in Paris four months after she disappeared at 18. Marie is a talented dancer and musician, something she didn't learn until she ran away. To earn money she danced in the street and played instruments she bought or stole when others weren't looking. She wasn't able to get a job as she didn't have any formal education despite not having any formal education and only the rules and ethics shoved down her throat she is an intelligent girl. She learnt English by watching English programmes with French subtitles and listening to English music. In England, Marie works as a part time dance teacher as well as giving private music lessons. She also does some cleaning work when things get tough for her. She does fall in love. She falls in love with someone who is a prince, everyone else knows he's a prince except her. And she starts to act normal until they go out together and hit the headlines. She only finds out when she gets a dresing down by his father for not dressing him properly and then she trys to fix everything so the prince doesn't get hurt trying to protect her.

I want to text this sexy text to my boyfriend...To have "fun" tonight. Will he respond? We've been arguing a lot, because I nag him a lot. We got into a huge fight on Sunday and he has been ignoring my texts and calls. Except on Sunday when he texted me: "Hey I'm working, I'll call you when I have the time..." Well I was planning to have sex with him on Sunday but he flaked on our date(I think he did that to get back at me because I argue with him a lot). Today, I really want to see him and talk to him. I plan to text him this:"Hey, I know I've been bad to you lately. Let me make it up to you. I'm free tonight & I promise you i'll make you smile" I don't plan on having sex because I have my monthly visit. But I know its my fault so I am pursuing him(I know if its not my fault I would just let it go). I like giving him oral and it always satisfies him and I miss his touch too. Will he give in to that text seduction? Mature responses only please. I can't have sex..I want to but I have my monthly visit.

CAN I SUE MY EX-BOYFRIEND FOR ACCSUING ME OF SENDING HIM THREATING LETTERS? I dated him last year august his 25yrs older thn me thinking he was mature classy turned in a nightmare. Lets just say he became physically,emotional abusive he threatn me all the time if i said something he find a way to hurt me or my family. At my job he became a patient and behind doors he forced me to touch me or have sex cause that turn him on i had no choice he come in 2x's per week for treatment pulling my hair touching me in flirtacious ways that the patients and emlpoyees must have told my boss by Nove 08' i was fired. I called him to tell him i asked him to call my boss so that he can denie it and atleast clear my name but he refused he said he didnt need my stress. It was the holidays by thanksgiving he broke up w/me i felt so used lonely had to be tight with money severly depress. I had a xmas gift for him that i held he picked it up a flowery shop with a plant congratulating for his new job title as a supervisor he got that title in the month i was fired. I thought that as long as im nice things will be ok he wont hurt me. Before this he wnted me to dress up and talk like a 5yr old im already younger than you how can that turn you on i said? It disgusted me such a turn off for me. He held on to my stuff all this months i got them back this past March which i got it back with male cum and cat pee all over it i left message to the cops on how mu stuff was returned never got a call back and 4months later in March i found a good job with nice people many of his coworkers i treated decided to follow me i also became the practice marketing so i made flyers to get more business. I started to get private calls like crazy in March so i filed a police report incase of anything. My ex decided to file an order of protection against me in april claiming im sending him threating letters and that his depress and all this phony crap. Than i day after i was served i found a note on my car as a threat saying im being watched im wanted dead so i filed another police report. My ex had told me at one point he was getting threat letters in mid november not to long after i lost the job i thought he was lieing wanting more attention, i actually received some in January 09' but didnt pay much attention i needed to go forwrd with my life i needed to get back on my feet somehow and i feel now that ive healed in some way that his claiming to be the victim so that i wont tell speak about what he has done to me. One time he forced himself on me so badly i caught n infection my privates inside peeled bleed and it burned wanting an icebucket i couldnt pee but the urges were there i think they called it blaader infection i had fever chills and the doc said theres a number of reasons to get it and ruff sex is one of them to much of it and thats what it was he never came with me to the hospital for support i ws chrged $300 that i payed alone and here his the victim i swallowed all this do to fear, i would wear scarfs long sleeves to cover bruises. Just a week in getting served i was called by his neighborhood police claiming i viloted that order of protection and i was stunned so if i didnt show up the next day they would arrest me. I showed up with my lawyer i was mugshot finger printed i was humiliated hd court that day as well and it comes down to be that my ex claims he received a threat letter that said CHILD MOLESTER i believe the judge was stunned as well he set me free and i did not post any bond but now i have 2 upcoming court date which i have to show up the part that sucks is that now this whole thing has fallen into criminal do to that the total as of right now is $3,000 in lawyer fees. If my ex was getting letters since november till now and if all this time you thought it was me why wouldnt he press charges then and if he ws scared of me then why the you have the Balls to still go and see what i got you for x-mas when you fear someone you dont want anything to do with them you dont go physically to pick it up His known all this time im the one fearing him, The only ones that know about this are my girlfriends one of them took a few pictures i did this so if something did happen they have some evidence and a picture of both of us, i also have someone who used to work at my old job who never knew that we were dating i kept it low key but she witness how i ws intimadated by him how he grabed pull my hair touching me always wanting control, My friends saw many of his text messages being abusive to bad my phone broke.I didnt want drama at my new job and now i had detectives coming in questioning me in front of my new bosses again im humiliated. Once this nightmare is over what are the chances for me to sue him he has a well paying job im sure good pension, when we were togther he never payed for anything i was used financially as well and he thought i payed the hotels with cash but i did credit card just incase at the beginning it was consentual but then it was threatful he said he has friends that due favor

Why can I not find any good men? Where are they? ? I am a single mother of a 2 year old. I have a good job, am buying my own house, have a good car. I am independent but would like to share my life and joy with someone of the opposite sex. My "ex-husband" (we are seperated because he is a Marine and is in AZ and I am in NV and by being married I get insurance as well as my daughter and more child support) cheated on me 3 times and then realized how great I am and wants me back. I just can't go back to him that easily. I told him that when he gets out of the Marines if he can prove to me that he's been good for the past 4 years then we will talk. Anyways, after him I have dated one guy. He broke up with me because he was not ready to have a child in his life. I went on a couple of dates with my ex-coworker and things seemed to be going well, but we haven't spoken much since then. I think he's not ready to have a child in his life either. The thing is I want a relationship. I want someone to talk to cuddle with, and yes, have sex with as I don't just go sleep around. I am smart, very caring and have a good head on my shoulders. However, I am still young and like to do young things. I like to go out and drink and dace every once in a while, joke and just be care-free while out on the town, yet still knowing where my priorities lie (in my baby girl) when I get home. Why can't I find a man that is ready to do the same? Where are all the good ones? Is is just my town or what???? Seems like the mature guys are too mature and old and boring and the young guys are just into partying and don't want "a child in their lives". Where is the happy medium? Will I find it in the next four years or will I have to give the ex another chance because if I don't find the ONE by then I feel like I will never find him and I don't want to end-up alone? :-(

Please Single (only) Gentlemen between the ages of 35-50 (Only) respond,,,,? Hello Mature and Stable gents :o) I want to give you a little input before i ask my question. I am a single, 35 yr. lady, no children, divorced for about 9 years, stable job and income, D&D free, and no alcohol issues. And i am with out a doubt always myself wether with a date or a friend. Acting when around someone is just not a good thing. I believe any person should always be themselves. And keeping up with a gents sex drive is not a problem at all (for me anyway). So ,,,,,,,,,to you Mature gents (over 35) ,,,,,,,What do you look for in a potential mate?